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Relationship Palava

Episode 3

Dear Dara

Remember the first time we met, the grocery store isn't where people meet their loved ones often is it?. Your smile drew me to you, gosh,  I just had to approach you. When I asked for your number, I thought you were going to slap me, I'm glad you didn't, but I had to push further. You are one hell of a stubborn creature, and I love you irrespective of whatever flaw you have. When I found out we were attending the same school, my joy knew no bound. I was so excited and wanted us to be closer. At first you were forming hard girl, but you said yes to me, which was the happiest day of my life. Our first date under the tree was unusual too. I was surprised when you asked us to meet there. You've helped me in all ramifications, even more times than I can count, thank you. I've learnt a lot from you too. 

Remember the girl you helped that evening when we were returning from one of our outings?, it was really inspiring watching you, you make me want to be better. I like your zeal and damn you're hardworking.  We've been together for years now, four years to be exact, and during these years, you've brought me joy that I've never felt in all of my life. Every second I spent with you was never a waste, it was really put into good use. Oh the good old memories. You put up with all my shitty attitude and you are caring too.




With all these, I still have to break up with you. Honestly, you're not the one at fault, like I said, I love you for you, but its all me, Dara, I'm the one with the problem. I love you, but I need to listen to my parents. They have found a girl for me to marry, and I hope you understand. I couldn't tell you when we met yesterday, cause I honestly didn't know how I'd face you saying all these, with those bright brown eyes gleaming with joy.  I'm deeply sorry, cause I feel I've wasted your time. I know I wasn't straightforward with you, but I hope you find it in your deepest of heart to forgive me and I hope you find a guy that would make your life meaningful and happy. I'll always love you and you'd always be in my heart. I would even tell my wife about you cause you deserve it all. Have a nice life Dee. 

Your bestie,
Felix

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